In a whirlwind of emotions, Jennifer Lopez’s friends are revealing that the singer poured her heart into trying to mend her relationship with Ben Affleck.
However, sources suggest that Affleck carries a certain darkness within him that proved too heavy for their romance to bear.
After celebrating at a lavish Bridgerton-themed party surrounded by loved ones, hopes were high that Affleck would join her in the Hamptons.
Yet, he never made an appearance.
Instead, Affleck has been seen around Hollywood, frequenting spots like the polo lounge at the Beverly Hills Hotel.
Reports indicate he was recently spotted with Kick Kennedy, the 36-year-old daughter of Robert F. Kennedy Jr.
This absence during pivotal moments in Lopez’s life raises eyebrows about where Affleck’s priorities truly lie.
The situation took a definitive turn when Lopez filed for divorce on the second anniversary of their extravagant wedding ceremony held at Affleck’s estate in Georgia.
In a surprising twist, she requested to revert to her maiden name.
A source close to the couple revealed that Lopez had genuinely believed she was living out her fairy tale, convinced that this time around, love would conquer all.
However, the reality appears starkly different.
The insider noted that while Lopez dreamed of a grand romance, the kind of love she envisioned simply isn’t ingrained in Affleck’s character.
“Ben has a darkness to him that no one else can fix,” they stated, highlighting that even his ex-wife, Jennifer Garner, couldn’t bridge that gap.
Lopez invested everything into this relationship, opening herself up to public scrutiny and the skepticism of countless naysayers who warned her against rekindling this flame.
Yet, she remained undeterred, believing that love could triumph over past failures.
The two first crossed paths back in 2002 while filming “Gigli,” and their connection was undeniable, even as Lopez was married to her second husband at the time.
Their romance quickly escalated, leading Lopez to file for divorce from Chris Judd in 2003.
Reflecting on their tumultuous relationship, Lopez shared, “We lost a sense of ourselves, and we needed to separate because we didn’t know how to survive it.” The pressure of their high-profile romance ultimately led to its collapse, forcing both to embark on journeys of self-discovery.
Following their split, Lopez married singer Marc Anthony in 2004, welcoming twins Max and Emma, now 16, before their eventual divorce a decade later.
Meanwhile, Affleck married Jennifer Garner in 2005 and has three children with her.
Garner has openly discussed Affleck’s struggles, painting a picture of a man who is both proud and isolated.
According to another source, Affleck seemed intent on allowing Lopez to shine in the spotlight, prioritizing her well-being over their relationship.
As summer unfolded, Lopez was often seen alone in Italy and the Hamptons, raising questions about the state of her heart.
Despite the challenges, Lopez has faced criticism for intertwining her personal life with her work, particularly in her recent projects, including the documentary “The Greatest Love Story Never Told” and her album “This Is Me Now.” Interestingly, insiders reveal that the idea for the documentary originated from Affleck’s own production company, Artists’ Equity.
As Lopez focuses on her career and personal growth, it’s clear that the journey of love is rarely straightforward.
The complexities of her relationship with Affleck serve as a reminder that even the most glamorous fairy tales can have unexpected endings.