As we wrap up the final day of Vlogmas, it’s time to reflect on the journey we’ve taken together.
I hope everyone is feeling the festive spirit as we approach Christmas.
In this video, I want to share some insights and lessons learned throughout this month-long adventure.
First off, let me share my guiding principle: “give yourself no choice.” When I first committed to daily Vlogmas posts leading up to Christmas, my wife had her reservations.
She understands the demanding nature of my regular work, family obligations, and our son’s activities.
The added commitment of daily videos was daunting for both of us.
However, we believe in following through on our commitments, which is why I adopted the mantra of giving myself no choice.
If you remove the option to back out, you’re left with only one path: to commit wholeheartedly.
This philosophy is so ingrained in my life that I even had it embroidered on my black belt.
It serves as a daily reminder of my dedication to achieving goals through consistent effort.
After 25 years of training, my belt is worn but still holds a powerful message: small, daily steps lead to significant achievements.
Throughout Vlogmas, we’ve explored various topics, particularly surrounding the lives of Omid Scobie, Prince Harry, and their ongoing family disputes.
One clear takeaway from these discussions is the importance of keeping family matters private.
Publicly airing grievances can lead to complications and misunderstandings, and often there’s no clear right or wrong in such situations.
Disputes within families can stem from a lack of perspective.
Many successful individuals emphasize the need to see things from others’ viewpoints.
When you only focus on your own perspective, you miss the bigger picture and potential solutions.
This issue is amplified when conflicts play out in the public eye, exposing inconsistencies and contradictions that can further complicate matters.
If there’s one key lesson from our Vlogmas discussions, it’s that changing your behavior is crucial if you want to alter your circumstances.
You can’t control others, but you can control your actions.
For instance, Meghan Markle has often pointed fingers at others without addressing her own behavior, which can stall progress and create additional challenges.
Another vital piece of advice is to tune out the noise.
Eliminate distractions and focus on your personal goals.
We’ve seen this wisdom reflected in how the royal family has chosen to distance themselves from what could be described as a media circus.
King Charles reportedly characterized the situation as just a book that will eventually fade away, which seems to be a healthy approach.
On a personal note, I want to express my gratitude to all of you for your support during Vlogmas.
I recently reached a significant milestone on YouTube, receiving my Silver Play Button, thanks to you, my amazing community.
It’s been a decade-long journey, and I couldn’t have done it without your encouragement.
Interestingly, I hit 100,000 subscribers on the same day we welcomed our new puppy, affectionately dubbed “The Floof.”
Many of you have inquired about the tradition of wearing wigs in court.
Originally meant to keep judges and barristers anonymous, wigs have evolved into a fashion statement.
There are even vegan options available now, showcasing how traditions can adapt over time.
The stories behind barrister gowns are equally fascinating, with historical significance tied to their design and purpose.